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Conclusion
Most of the religious leaders and theologians
surveyed agree that:
 | God does not regard homosexuality as a sin.
Several respondents regards a person's sexual orientation, be it
heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual, as a "gift from God".
 | The Scriptures were written before the word
"homosexual" existed. Jesus is silent on the concept of
homosexuality. Where the Scriptures object to certain types of same-gender
and opposite-gender sexual expression, they do so because those actions were
exploitative and oppressive, rather than loving and caring. The writers and
interpreters of the Bible were influenced by the social, cultural, and moral
attitudes of their time, and limited by the scientific knowledge then
available.
 | God approves of gays and lesbians pledging
their love in a covenant of holy union and raising a family - provided each
does so in a constructive, loving, nonselfish way and shows respect for the
other's rights and dignity. |
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Discussion
The answers show that the respondents came from a
background rich in religious knowledge, although they acquired that knowledge
from different faiths, printed sources, and teachers. They weighed the value and
meaning of their answers word by word. The responses show that in our search for
truth, the authors and we all - including you the reader, and I, the editor of
this booklet - must read as many books and listen to as many experts as time
allows. The, in the end, we take the best from what we have learned, retreat
from work, family, and other influences, test our knowledge against our
conscience, resolve any conflicts, and develop and find our own independent
truth.
When our own truth deviates from that of most
people, it takes great courage to express and live by that truth. That is what
the theologians and religious leaders who responded to our survey have done.
PFLAG is grateful for their courage and insights.
For us humans, truth, as we see it, is never
absolute - nor is it constant. Our search for truth is limited by the capacity
of our comprehension and the environment from which we draw our knowledge. As we
mature and gain new insights and experiences, we may adjust our concepts of
truth, replace them with new concepts, or strengthen earlier ones.
Just as we expect others to respect our carefully
developed concepts of truth, so should we tolerate and respect those of others,
recognizing that many of us think differently.
As anticipated, the answers of the religious
leaders are not all identical but they share many common beliefs.
Question 1: The writers generally felt
that homosexual relationships are not sinful, as long as they are loving,
respectful, honest, and safe. All that God creates is good; this includes human
sexuality, be it lesbian, gay, bisexual or heterosexual.
Question 2: The respondents are divided on
whether the Scriptures object to homosexuality, but those who see such
objections share the concern that the Biblical authors could not have helped
being influenced by:
 | A lower level of scientific knowledge and
prejudice born of a lack of information;
 | 2,000 year old cultural beliefs that no longer
apply in the 20th or 21st century;
 | An overwhelming concern for the survival of
people, when procreation was of highest priority. |
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In other words, they hold the view that, although
the authors of the Scriptures may have been inspired by God, the writers,
translators, and interpreters were influenced by the culture, moral attitudes,
and prejudices of the time in which they lived, and limited by the scientific
knowledge of 2,000 years ago. We should also remember that, at that time, very
few people could read or write and mass production of books through printing was
unavailable. Most people were, therefore, dependent on the spoken word and human
memory only, and if they disagreed, were not able to successfully challenge the
writings of the powerful literates.
Also, the microscope and other scientific
instruments designed to test the accuracy of prevailing beliefs were not
invented until many hundreds of years later. This relative lack of scientific
knowledge (by today's standards) is evident in the Scriptures:
 | The Old Testament speaks of the sun circling
around the earth (Genesis 1:14-19). However, in the 16th and 17th centuries,
some scientists, including Galileo, discovered that the earth moves around
the sun. Their theory aroused opposition from the authorities, I.e. The
Church, and Pope Paul V forced Galileo to recant his statement in 1633. To
save his life, Galileo withdrew his statement, but we know today that he was
right, and that the earth indeed moves around the sun.
 | In another example (1 Kings 3:19), the Bible
speaks of mothers who in their sleep "overlaid their child," that
is, when a baby was found dead in the morning and had shared the bed with
the parents, the mother was accused of negligently smothering her baby with
her own body. She was, therefore, driven out of town in shame. Today,
however, we know that babies do occasionally die in their sleep of unknown
causes, even when alone in their cribs (sudden infant death syndrome or
SIDS). And although we are not sure even today what causes it, we know that
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We should also remember that some parts of the
Bible were written at a time when scientists believed that a man's semen
contained all the ingredients needed to produce a new life. They did not know
that the woman's body contained the egg to be fertilized by the man's semen. The
woman was regarded only as the "soil in which the embryo grows."
(Singer, Charles: A Short History of Anatomy and Physiology from the Greek to
Harvey, 1957, page 24, Dover Publishers, Inc.). Therefore, in a period in
history when underpopulation and a high mortality rate were a constant threat to
human survival, any act of "wasting" semen outside the woman's body,
such as male homosexual acts, masturbation, and premature ejaculation, were
considered sinful by religious leaders and their followers.
This rationale of 2,000 years ago is still
evident in much of today's thinking, preaching, literature, and legislation even
though some regions of the world are threatened by overpopulation, rather than
underpopulation, and despite the fact that scientists now generally believe that
one's sexual orientation is biologically determined at an early age and
unchangeable. (See Why Ask Why?: Addressing the Research on Homosexuality and
Biology published by PFLAG). This ancient rationale is also responsible for
today's continued discrimination against gays by certain segments of society.
Until the beginning of the 16th century, Europe -
from which most of America's current laws and thinking are derived - was largely
governed by the Roman Catholic Church and the Vatican. Since the 16th century
Reformation, traditional Christian teaching has either avoided the issue of
homosexuality, expressed opposition to it, or adopted the attitude "hate
the sin, love the sinner."
For example, the Roman Catholic Church teaches
that homosexuality is not a choice that some people make. It states that some
people have a homosexual orientation which is permanent and unchangeable
("Human Sexuality," United States Catholic Conference, 1990). The
Church also has a teaching which states that only those in heterosexual marriage
may engage in sexual relations. Therefore, the Roman Catholic Church does not
consider a person's homosexuality per se as sinful. It does, however, regard any
sexual activity outside a legal marriage as sinful.
Other faiths base their continued opposition to
homosexuality on the Scriptures. Adhering to the belief that it is wrong, their
followers, anxious to lay blame, insist that homosexuality is a matter of
individual choice and preference, or they hold parents responsible for bringing
up a child who is gay. (This theory was disproved in the 1970s when a team of
scientists, supported with funds from the National Institute of Mental Health
concluded that upbringing and other environmental factors alone cannot cause
homosexuality. See Why Ask Why?)
As a result of this continued negative attitude
toward homosexuality, perpetuated by misinformed religious leaders, thousands of
gays, lesbians and their parents have left their churches or synagogues, often
amid much conflict and anguish. Some lesbians and gays are made to believe that
God has rejected them and are encouraged to remain celibate. In the past, some
gay men and lesbians joined the priesthood or convent. Other lesbians and gays
and their families, feeling rejected by their faith's leaders, started working
to establish support systems within their own denominations. This movement has
resulted in an ever-growing number of religious organizations, such as
"Dignity" and "Affirmation," that are supportive of and
minister to gays and lesbians, their families and friends.
Question 3: All respondents agreed that
God sanctions committed relationships blessed by a priest, minister, or rabbi,
as long as these "holy unions" or "marriages" are based on
love, respect, caring and faithfulness and are not abusive or based on
selfishness. It is interesting to note that, according to Professor John
Boswell, Chair of the History Department at yale University, the Roman Catholic
Church sanctioned same-gender marriages before the 16th century. Possibly as a
result of the Reformation, the tradition of same-gender wedding ceremonies fell
into disuse in most localities and the written liturgy was filed away in
confidential Vatical libraries.
Although the raising of children is not essential
to a healthy relationship, most respondents believe that gay couples in such
covenant relationships have an excellent opportunity to share their love and
religion with children, be they biological or adopted.
We are living in a fast-paced world inherited
from our ancestors full of rich resources and wisdom. Yet, as we split the atom,
land on the moon, and develop vaccines against deadly diseases, we learn that
earlier books of wisdom, including the Bible, may not always have held what we
today know and believe to be the truth. We have to reinterpret and modify some
ideas and concepts once believed to be the "Gospel" truth, including
the notion that God considers homosexuality as wrong and sinful. Over the
centuries, this misinterpretation of certain biblical passages has caused great
suffering to millions of gay, lesbian, and bisexual individuals. It is time that
we right that wrong and start respecting all individuals, regardless of their
sexual orientation. It is time to celebrate the diversity of God's creation.
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